If you have someone in mind whom you want to date, then buddy lets make sure we get the first part of it- THE ASKING OUT right. Asking out these days is no longer just the prerogative of the gentlemen but the ladies too are catching up. YIPEE!!! For more suggestions on this, as to how to go about. Read on…..

CLEAR VISION

First get it clear in your head a few things like what are your objectives or what do you seek in the relationship you hope to get into. Is it a ‘Wham Bam Thank You Maam’ or something deeper.(no pun intended!!!). Its very important because this sets the whole tone, your vision is clear so you go about in such a way and with a corresponding enthusiasm level, which could make the other person also see it.

BE READY

You heard practice makes you perfect? I say in this scenario practice might not make you perfect, but it could be the difference between your getting the date or not. So make sure you ready with what you would be going to tell the girl. The last thing you would want is to stutter and also the confidence could also work in your favor.

SPACE FOR SUCCESS

Make sure that you asking the person out, does not create an environment of pressure for him/her. Let them take their time to decide. They should definitely not feel trapped in saying a yes, unless that’s what you want !! if the person takes the decision out of her own will, then it will not seem like an obligation to you which she is fulfilling. This also cancels out any regret or bitterness on either side in the future, if things don’t work out.

MILLION DOLLAR SMILE

Might well be the time buddy to clean your whites and flash that million dollar smile. I for sure, do believe that a grin is what is needed to win, the date. 99 out of hundred there is the chance that a person would smile back if you do. So I would say it’s a good way to start the proceedings,  on a positive note.

PLAN B

Imagine going to a restaurant and finding out that there is no choice !! Same way my friend give the person you asking out, alternative choices of date and the place. It should be such that is convenient to both of you. Your plans should always be flexible, a plan B should always be there.

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TIMING.

That word should be enough, but I would still say a few words. Make sure it’s the right time to ask someone out. You sure wouldn’t want to ask when she is pissed about something, or still fresh from a breakup. No sir. No use because you yourself know the answer before asking. As captain Jack Sparrow would say, ‘wait for the opportune moment’.

NO BEER MY DEAR

For heavens sake do not and I repeat do not, Drink up to get the courage to ask that angel out. She would definitely certify you as AA material !! its basically would mean that you are not confident or let me go a step further and say- You don’t have the ba**s.

‘NO’ IS NOT THE END

Finally do not take it personal if the person you asked out says no. It’s a real possibility, mind it. Laugh it out, and move on. Give the person time maybe she might think about it and give you an affirmative later. It should look like that your life has more than that person, it might even increase your market value !!

All The Best