Oh boy I hope this is something which you folks would not have to face frequently. A bad date is something which can happen with the best of us. lLife is funny isn’t it and we all need to have a contingency plans. So read on how to handle bad dates and to come out without anyone getting hurt………..

FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED

Okay you have figured it out that the date is just not going the way you planned, you could use the tried and tested method of texting your friend to give you a ring with any XYZ emergency. Or you could go to the washroom, call up your trusted friend and ask him/her to give you a call in a while with an emergency Boy does this work. Excuse yourself, don’t wait to hear pleadings or anything and bolt for your life.

GO FOR IT

When it comes to paying the bill, the girl might insist to pay pressingly. This could be sign of her even acknowledging that this was a bad date from which she would like to cut off all ties. Submit to her wishes after some resistance. Make a big show that you actually let her pay. Be at your chivalrous best, opening doors, getting the coat etc. its always fun playing around.

CUT THE CRAP

No deep throat kissing and definitely no lovey dovey talk. A peck on the cheek and you are good to run for that taxi. You would not like to extend your miseries staying a minute more than required. Its no use wasting precious time on something which is not going right. It’s a waste of your time on the other hand it could also give false hope to the other person.

DIPLOMACY

For those who don’t like pretending, don’t go on and tell your date how you hated the evening instead let the thing be. Remain diplomatic ie. Implying that it wasn’t the way you would have wanted the things to go. The date might not have gone wrong because of the other person, but maybe of no fault of either of you. Situations like this it would be unfair to put blame on someone for something they had no hand in.

NO TOMMOROW

No false hopes for the future, if you truly did feel that the date was not good, don’t make any promises for the future. People would really appreciate the truth than being left to hang on false promises.

NO FRIENDS IN HERE

Do not offer friendship in most such circumstances, because your dating the person was not on the basis of friendship but because hormonally charged people had romance or sex on mind! If friendship happens with time so be it. I know cases in which people have become best of friends. Offering friendship for a bad date is more like patronizing the person, which could in turn piss the person more.

EASY GOING

Keep things easy and relaxed. Don’t take initiatives and let things happen the way they are happening. Like they say move on with the drift. Let it roll and get it over than putting extra effort into it.

All the best………