WHY DO PEOPLE D’ONT GET A DATE

This article that you are about to read about deals with a topic that cannot be generalized and written about because its very individual and varies from person to person. So I talked to a number of people. People just like you whom you meet everyday. I got some strange and some reasonable views from them. Some of these points might be extreme and unreasonable, but then there are people who think so.So here it is why people just like you who think that why don’t people get a date.


LACK OF CONFIDENCE

Doesn’t have the b***s – Yup, this of course is kind of believable. Specifically for a guy this is true. We live in times where both a guy and the girl ask each other out. But there are people who think that it’s the guy’s responsibility to take initiative. There are guys who might be shy for various of reasons. Maybe they lack confidence, maybe the fear of rejection or anything for that matter. These things can and do stop a guy to ask the girl he is interested in for a date.

UNDERESTIMATION OF ONE’S POTENTIAL

I know this point is pretty hard on girls, but then it appears that a lot of people especially girls themselves feel that if the girl is not pretty then she would surely not get a date. Maybe its because its installed in the society that we live in that the girl has to be pretty and with the guys its not that important. I do beg to differ and would like to say that there is always someone out there for everybody.

LACK OF PERSONALITY

Personality they say is most important in a person. Someone once told me that even if a person wears the top brands but has no personality then its of no use wearing that vulgarly expensive dress, on the other hand if a person has a personality he can carry anything. I believe its pretty much right. So if a person does not have a good personality, I mean a complete dud then the person may have a problem getting date.

DRESSING SENSE

This point may sound contradictory to the previous point, but actually its not. A persons dressing sense is as important as his/her personality. I don’t mean that you gotta go splash for Armani and Versace, what I meant is that the clothes should be clean, pressed and appropriate. You need to put some effort in dressin for the date, so that the person feels good that you cared to look good. Sloppy dressing definitely out. Its okay for your partner to see you looking like an ogre when you have gotten into the relationship, but till then its definitely would be good to look smart.

SEXISM - NOT REALLY!!!

This was pretty funny when women specially told me that they would like the guy to pay on the first day. Really is a paradox. I pulled their leg by asking about whatever happened to gender equality and all. I was told that, equality and all is good but still on the first date the guy must pay. So guys make sure you have a reputation of paying the tab on the date, atleast the first.

BOSSING IT AROUND

Being possessive and bossy during the date is not the best thing for a guy to do. Your date must feel no pressure or feel trapped in your company. Cause if she does then I bet that you aint getting a second innings with her. Also most probably she might even spread the word about you as much as she can. Respect her place and her rights as an individual

I AM TO BLAME

The last point I want to put across that a reaon why a person does not get a date is that the person himself/herself does not want to date. This lack of date is self induced date drought. The reason could be as varied as bad past experiences, loner, loss of someone close etc.

There could be any number of reasons for a person not getting a date. Its not much of a job though to get one. Enjoy

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